WOW! I go away from this forum for just a short while and everybody else shows up – it’s like being late to a party
Welcome Samuel – I appreciate your comparison of metaphysics and the Urantia Book – metaphysics can only take us humans so far, while TUB takes us further, since it is revelation and not simply humans giving it their best shot. By the way, my wife’s first language is French, while English is a second language, so I appreciate you writing in both languages, for it provides greater potential for others to enter this forum. But realize that you may be asked to translate for those of us who only speak our native languages
Welcome back to Paul in Portland, and Andre, and Mara – I have not yet finished reading all of your posts from months/years ago, but I like the variety of what everyone brings to these discussions! And of course we should all value the years of studying that Bonita and Bradly bring to the forum…
I was surprised by the negativity that recently crept into the forum. I think we should extend some mercy to each other, for teaching and learning involves more than just our knowledge of facts, or our abilities to quote from sources. That is why in the Bible, we have the story of the Good Samaritan which Jesus used to answer the question, “Who is our neighbor?” And that question was asked in response to Jesus saying that 2nd greatest commandment is to “Love your neighbor as (much as you love) yourself”. So I want to pick up on the recent ideas that Mara and Andre provided…
We will make more progress if we hold back any urges to (mis)judge each others’ comments. That stems from hyper-sensitivities, which of course come from our personal life experiences, which shape our beliefs and interpretations of others’ beliefs. That is why when I first joined this forum, I briefly asked Bonita and Bradly about their backgrounds, specifically as they relate to their beliefs about reincarnation and about the Urantia book. Bonita gave enough details to help me understand her perspectives and areas of skepticism, but Bradly did not share as much, which is his right to not disclose as much details. However, I notice that Bradly does not have a problem being a critical of others’ ideas, but is quick to point out when others are critical of his ideas. That is NOT a criticism as much as an observation that makes me wonder all the more what he experienced in life that has made him a bit more hyper-sensitive than I would have expected from him. I wonder if the dispute regarding “suffering” could better be explained by making a distinction between the kind of suffering that comes directly from making poor/bad decisions in life, like me borrowing a lot of money from the government to attend college, versus the kind of suffering that comes from watching our loved ones making poor/bad decisions for themselves in life, like the way my parents “suffer” (emotionally) as they watch me struggle to pay back my student loans. I think that is the kind of distinction that Bradly and Bonita failed to consider and discuss with each other. Bradly and Bonita already know how much I like analogies from our daily life experiences to enhance our understanding of both metaphysical concepts and the ideas presented in the Urantia Book. By the way, the Urantia book has already indicated that it is best NOT to be so dogmatic about our ideas, even if they are true. As an analogy, my parents often try to prove each other wrong when they argue; my father is better at that than my mother; HOWEVER, while he may win most arguments, he has lost “the war” (in terms of the goal of strengthening their marriage, which is pitiful by any normal standard).
Thus, instead of each of us merely defending our positions, let us also try to better understand why each of us believes as we do. Which brings me back to a question that I asked Bradly and Bonita, which the Urantia book may or may not fully answer – how exactly are humans supposedly misinterpreting the mansion worlds and morontia life as “reincarnation”? Just simply quoting a few sections of the Urantia book is NOT enough to help transition people from a “solid” belief in reincarnation to a “solid” belief in the Urantia Book teachings. Neither is it helpful to simply dismiss reincarnation as “false memories”. Karma (and reincarnation in the modern, new age context) are NOT as illogical as Bradly and Bonita makes them out to be; if they were SO illogical, hardly anyone would believe it! Where is the supposed misunderstandings taking place?
Bonita and Bradly have already quoted much from the Urantia Book; I think we should more closely examine some of those quotes, and logically speculate on them if we must, in order to solve such an odd puzzle. The fact that the first mansion world is still so very material in nature as to NOT shock us once we resurrect in the morontia life could be a valuable clue. Another good clue is that the Urantia book states that our souls are already experiencing morontia life (to some extent) while we are still living this physical existence. So let me ask, “In what ways are our souls experiencing morontia life while we are still physically alive?” If you can thoroughly answer that question, perhaps it will shed light on how we are misinterpreting those morontia experiences as reincarnation. Do you all see that I am attempting to get us all to approach this subject like a mystery worth solving, rather than simply restating ideas with the attitude of “I’m right and you are wrong”, which has been the basic pattern that this forum has taken for months and years.
So please, let us try a more creative, constructive approach to this forum topic of reincarnation, instead of jumping from A to Z in just one person’s forum post. Bridge the gaps in our understanding of reincarnation to our understanding of the Urantia book concepts. By the way, Bradly seems to imply that there is NO value in suffering in this physical life; thus suffering should not be a part of the afterlife. Actually, I came to the conclusion years ago that most people seem to learn how to be more respectful human beings often as a result of personal suffering. For example, I used to have poor dietary habits, and as a result of my suffering digestive issues, I changed my diet for the better. So (at least some forms of) suffering/struggles can benefit us humans in the here and now, so why should that type of learning NOT be useful to us in the afterlife?! True that it would be better if we learned our lessons the easy way versus the hard way, but either way, we can learn. Bye for now.