André, my first thought upon reading your post is the word “attract”. People can be attractive, attracted, likable, pleasant, lovable, sincere, and jovial too. And then of course, we can be grouchy, unpleasant and people want to avoid us at those times. So, which comes first—-the chicken or the egg? Humor is intended with that!!!!
However, as we gain experience with one another we discover more! One must know more to love more! But, as we know more of unlovable features, factors, relationship threatening exchanges, then, according to Jesus, we are more challenged to show love, even though His example is to love regardless. You get the idea here. A God-knowing person knows love and knows his value to God and knows God values all people.
Now, to get to know God, we must love Him first to get to know him? Hmmmmmm. I need to think that one through a bit more. How can we love someone we don’t know first?
But, notice the quote uses the word “things”!!!! Is God a thing? Note the quote does not refer to a person, but things. This changes the assumption (discussion to your question) to activities and provisions provided by the Person God.
More thoughts?